I post my baby picture here for a reason. Dr. Bernie Siegel tells a
story of a phenomena that happens over and over. He often talks to
people, and holds up a baby, and everybody will ooh and aah and say how
precious, how adorable. He will then hold up an audience member, often a
high school student, and every one will laugh and make fun, even the
person being held up or asked to stand up. And so the question, what
changed in fifteen, sixteen years. "Why were you a gorgeous baby, and
now you're laughing at yourself?"... "So I really do tell people to get
out their baby pictures and take a look at them. I try to communicate
to them that they're a child of God--to feel that they are divine rather
than to tell them to do this, don't do that, it's not good for you, but
to get them to love themselves so they then do what is good for them."
So I have posted my baby picture. I am a child of God. I am of divine
worth. I remember a saying our seminary teacher had in his office. "You
are a child of God, and God doesn't make no junk." When I feel down, I
hope to see my baby picture, and remember my royal heritage.
Dr Siegel is a surgeon, and practices in the cancer field. He began to
realize hope and a lot to do with survival. He and his wife established
a program called ECaP (Exceptional Cancer Patients). He talks of the
importance of having love. By this he means to love and be loved. But
he also is talking about having something you love, a passion. He says
it is funny, but now matter how ill you are, when you lose yourself in
something you love, it seems to go away, you don't worry about the pain
for awhile. In my case, I don't hear my tinnitus.
Hope is important. It improves your immune system. It extends life.